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What to do first

You don't need to figure everything out today.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, that's completely normal.

Just take this one step at a time.

1

Take a breath

You don't need to understand everything right now. Just focus on being there.

2

Start tracking your journey

Use the TinySteps app to log feeds, sleep, milestones, and notes in seconds.

3

Introduce yourself

Let the team know you're the dad and ask who to speak to.

4

Ask one or two questions

Simple questions help you feel more in control.

5

Look after yourself

You'll cope better if you rest, eat, and talk to someone.

Common mistakes

  • Trying to understand everything at once
  • Not asking questions
  • Forgetting to eat or rest

When to get help

  • If you're worried about your baby → speak to staff
  • If you're struggling mentally → speak to GP or support